Through these shifts in attitude, levels of self respect, and an overall better valuation of our selves the negative positions of people around in our societies stand little to gain. So, if the attitudes in society are not quick to change, we must embrace some changes in our selves. I am rather average and have been afforded a lot of public grace because of that detail. If you ever have the chance to meet me, you’ll quickly notice that I am not a large person myself. Like their gravity pulls them into place.Īs this project progresses and grows it is becoming clear what kinds of lessons come from embracing a world of, not only body positivity but, fat acceptance and elevation. See how these two large bodied men fit so very well together. Like planets and moons trapped in a pull of gravity.Įxplore this gallery of images from my session with Nick and Patric. When you see the connection and love that spills from a relationship, from a touch or embrace between Nick and Patric how taboo is it really? How sad is it? It’s not. In an outside world that is brimming with judgement and even resentment for people that are big, this type of connection can sometimes been seen as taboo.
Nick and Patric met online like most couples do these days, but in an online world where it’s safe to be fat and to express one’s attraction to big. Maybe this is more just basic rules of attraction, but again just my truth. The desire to be close to and become embraced by someone that unspeakably pulls you in. Not to make light of fat or round shapes, but I am speaking a truth that I understand personally. Like planets, they can emulate a kind of gravity. For those that consider themselves chubby chasers, big bodied people are a magnet.